Since it's the time of year where we are putting the final touches on our planning for the fall, I wanted to repost this from June. It is just as important for you to schedule what you'd like to do for yourself. This is just a reminder...
** If you'd like to see the original post and comments as well as the slideshow, please visit http://www.theintuitiveparent.com/1/post/2011/06/liberal-arts-living-ii.html.
June 24, 2011
This is my 2nd annual Liberal Arts Living blog. I hadn’t planned on this being an annual thing but I decided that since I have done a whole lot more living since my blog a year ago, I wanted to share with all of you. My only hope is that it will inspire you to get up and do something new.
Over the past year:
• I decided to publish a book; which most of you know already.
• I learned how to knit.
• I learned how to sew wool felt playthings for my kids.
• I learned how to get over my fear of singing in front of everyone.
• I have learned about adding more raw food recipes to our family food choices.
• I learned how to grow my own organic garden.
• I am learning how to play the bass; something I have said I wanted to do since high school.
• I made my first herbal tinctures.
• And most recently, my husband, 14 year old son and I decided to participate in the NH 48 Hour Film Project. We had to write, shoot, edit and complete a 5 to 7 minute mini-move with all work being done in the 48 hour period.
There are a lot of new things that are in the works for the next year but I will keep those under wraps until I actually do them. A lot of them are new for me. The ones I am most excited, as well as nervous, about are the ones where I will be out there helping other parents.
How does all of this fit into my parenting? I am living the kind of life I want my kids to live. A life not filled with “I always wanted to”s and “someday”s and certainly NOT “when the kids move out”s. What kind of example would that be for them? If I haven’t been always learning something new and actively pursuing my interests, I do fear what kind of message that would give my kids.
Would it tell my daughter that to be a stay at home mom is to be boring, or bored? Would it tell my sons that their future wives couldn’t pursue what their interests were unless it were making an income? Would it tell the kids that mom can’t start living her own life until they are out of the house?
Instead I am showing them that you can be an involved, loving parent with close relationships with your kids without smothering them or living your life vicariously through them. I am showing them that parents need to feel fulfilled and it makes them better parents. I am showing them, and go look this one up for yourselves, that the key to staying younger is to always learn something new. I could sit here and just “tell” them about all of this, but actually doing it shows them that I would know what I was talking about if I did talk to them about it.
I hope I have inspired you to get up and just go do one new thing. I don’t care what it is or how crazy it sounds! There is no excuse good enough not to. Would you do it if I told you your kid's future happiness depends on it?
As a Parent Coach and Mentor, my passion lies in empowering parents to make the best decisions they can for their children and their families as a whole. As a well-trained coach, I can be your facilitator and accountability partner for long-lasting, meaningful change that has a permanent, positive impact for your family. By focusing on the values that you hold most important in your life, I can help you create and maintain the type of parenting relationship you want to have with your children, now and into their adulthood.
I am a homeschooling mom of four children in Massachusetts. I am also the author of a book called The Herbal Beverage Book, which can be found on amazon. When not coaching, writing or spending time with the family, I enjoy Hayao Miyazaki films, new and classic Dr. Who episodes, anything related to American history and a great glass of mead.
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